This horse-as-tor-mentor concept goes against what many riders believe about having, riding, and training a horse.
Most of us think that if our horse doesn't listen or resists, we must be with the wrong horse.
We believe life with our horse should be full of wonderful moments because we give our horse everything: the best food, water, shelter, blankets, time, energy and attention. So we expect our horse to respect us and be nice... not to show up as an opponent or antagonist.
But because we have lessons to learn, we will be triggered in important ways by our horse.
In those moments, we have a choice:
- We can use the interaction to find what needs to be found, and work harder on ourselves than on our horse
- Or we can avoid that search and growth by blaming the horse.
With Maestro, I chose the first option.