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The 3 Secrets of Response-Ability

When we are a ‘response-able’ rider, we respond optimally to the situation around us.
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We make the choices to respond to events appropriately rather than complain about it.
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Being ‘response-able’ is about adapting to the situation, events, challenges with our horse, and to life in general.
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Now in day-to-day life, in social and semantic context, we’re using the word responsibility to express:

“Who did it?”
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• “Who’s to blame?”
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But in Straightness Training (ST) – when we use the word responsibility – we’re talking about the response-ability which means the ability to respond.

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So when for example a whip falls on the grounds:
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• We can bend down and pick it up.
• We can ask somebody else to pick it up.
• We can take it later.
• We can leave it and go away.
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So we can do any number of things because we feel responsible for this.
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If we’re not responsible for it, in a way, we say:

“I am not able to do anything about it…”
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Well…‍‍‍

Which attitude do you think gives more freedom?

Secret #1

I will tell you a secret:

▶ ︎Feeling responsible gives you freedom and aliveness in your training sessions!‍‍ ‍‍

Compare it to this:
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A rider is lying on the ground.

  • You call him: no response.
  • You shake him: no response.
  • You poke him: no response.

What do you think?
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He’s not alive.
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So if someone is completely incapable of responding, he’s dead.
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So what is life?‍‍ ‍‍

The ability to respond!
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Now the question is:

How alive do you want to be when training your horse?

30%?
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50%?
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100%!!!!!!!
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If 100% aliveness has to happen within us:

To do so, just tap into your memory, when you were a kid:
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You could respond to everything!
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When a butterfly came by, you flew with it!
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But what happens nowadays:

Butterflies come:

  • Most probably we will not notice it.
  • Or ignore it.
  • Or chase it away.

But we do not fly with it anymore!

Secret #2

Here’s another secret:
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▶︎ With age, agility can decrease, but aliveness cannot decrease!
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If you’re 100, you can be as alive as a 6 y.o.!
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Maybe not as agile as the kid, but you can be as alive!
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But this is what happens:
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When we were a kid, we could respond to everything, but nowadays we say:
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“I am not responsible for this; I’m not responsible for that”.
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But if you want to be 100% alive…
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Then don’t put restrictions on your ability to respond!
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Remember, the whole universe is responding to you:

  • The water that you drink is responding to you.
  • The food that you eat is responding to you.
  • The air that you breathe is responding to you.
  • The sun comes up, and your whole system responds. ‍‍

You may not be conscious of this, but your body is responding to everything!

What you exhale, the trees are inhaling; what the trees exhale, you’re inhaling.

‍‍Every day, everything within you, every cell in your body, is responding.
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If right now, your breathing apparatus refuses to respond to the outside situation, you’‍ll die!
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But if you don’t like the rider next to you and think:
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“I don’t want to inhale what he’s exhaling!”
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Well…. you can only die.
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This means:
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You may not like him, but what he exhales, you inhale without any problem!
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Your body has no problem.
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The problem is only psychological.
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Only your mind is resisting.
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But life is functioning in an unlimited response to everything.

Secret #3

So here’s the third secret:
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▶︎ Being responsible is the only way you can be successful in Straightness Training.
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Straightness Training will become a complete way of training only when we embrace the quality of responsibility.
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We can all do extraordinary things with our horse if we make a 100% commitment, rather then finding excuses or blame anything around us.

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